A lot of the time, threesomes happen on the spur of the moment. If she wants to play, then PLAY. The second a woman sniffs a tiny hint of you shaming her for having sexual desires, she will share them with her vibrator, her best friends, and possibly the man she is having an affair with… but never again with YOU.
Once you can be okay with your self and not feel shame around it, you can have a matter-of-fact conversation with your girl and explain what you are willing… and what you are NOT willing to do in comfortable way. Obviously this situation is causing you some anxiety, and most men would certainly feel the same way.
She said it was real hot. A relationship where you love your partner is sacred, that being said there is a level of respect needed for it to work on both ends.
I think you need to have a proper discussion first rather than doing it on a whim. A relationship where you love your partner is sacred, that being said there is a level of respect needed for it to work on both ends.